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Recently, I lost a year. It is gone forever, and I will never get it back.
At the recent October General Conference, thousands of moms in the Church had the same thing happen to them!
While I've made this sound scarier than it is, that "lost year" has made a HUGE difference in our home and with our family. More than ever before, I can see that our family culture needs to resemble a minature Missionary Training Center. October's announcement made it clear that it's the time for families to raise the bar!
Examination TimeI have a seventeen-year-old son that is working harder than ever on his mission preparations. He recently got his first job to help with mission expenses, and has backed off of his academics somewhat in preparation for teaching the Gospel. I have found myself making a list of the things he has mastered and where he still needs work. This list is not dominated by academic subjects, interestingly enough. There are some of those, but there's also life skills, like sewing on buttons, ironing shirts, managing money, and grocery shopping.
Luckily, there are many things that I can remove from his "list." Cooking? Check. Scripture study and Gospel knowledge? Check, check. Cleaning? Check. (Mostly...) Of course there's room for improvement in these areas, and we're working on them more than ever.
Public speaking? Check. Friendliness? Check. Testimony? Check.
At the same time, my beautiful eldest daughter-- the one with Asperger's, the one who dug her heels in to EVER leave home for college-- just turned nineteen and has decided that she wants to serve a mission. That decision has sent her mama reeling with excitement and a tiny bit of panic. I never thought she'd be considering a mission for quite some time yet, and here she is, deciding to go.
And so, another list has been made and items are being checked off, one by one.
Rachel is the happy mother of twelve children between the ages of 19 and almost 3 months old. Now in her fourteenth year of homeschooling, she continues to be an enthusiastic advocate for Thomas Jefferson Education principles and has spoken at several homeschool and TJEd conferences. She enjoys Shakespeare and has recently completed an entire Shakespeare curriculum for homeschoolers and homeschool groups, now available at www.yeshakespeare.com. She blogs at Thoughts From The Hearth and at Old Fashioned Motherhood .